Thursday 19 November 2015

The Bhawaiya Song : Place of Woman in Bhawaiya; part 2 - The Sensual Love





In Bhawaiya love is not presented in an unworldly, supernatural or heavenly way. Here love portrays the hard-working real life situation of the common people of North Bengal. The hero and heroine meet in the extensive bounty and boundless solitude of nature for a moment only. Love through mutual understanding between them acts like touch stone in the midst of the fatigue of hard labour. And this immediately relieves the pains and stress of everyday life.
Hemanga Biswas observed that the songs of North Bengal are much more life-oriented than those of East Bengal. Here the river Torsha has not become Yamuna of Radha-Krishna, Chilmarir Bandar has not become Vrindabana; here the composers and singers have not yielded so much to the feudalism. According to Kali Dasgupta, the North Bengal songs are much more down to earth; here Kala (the hero) does the works of tilling lands, rowing boat and grazing cows and does not behave like Krishna with the flute in hands. There is no kind of hypocrisy in Bhawaiya.
In Bhawaiya songs the woman is the central character. She absorbs the feeling that she can move forward through any kind of difficult path if she gets the man as her companion and comrade.The feelings of love, passion, sorrow and pain of woman are mostly seen in Bhawaiya. The woman senses the feeling of love in mind right from the beginning of her budding youth. She feels the necessity in her life of a man who will meet her mental and physical needs and make her life fulfilling. If however, the hard realities of life do not make this possible and she does not get anybody after her mind she feels frustrated, dejected and all her hopes and aspirations of womanhood remain unfulfilled. The simple illiterate young girl at that moment has nothing to rely upon, except for putting blame on God. We get the expression of feelings and emotions of such a woman in most of the Bhawaiya songs.
This is a very old and the first printed Bhawaiya song which expresses the feelings and emotions of a young girl :
Prathama jauvaner kale na hail mor biya,
Ar katakal rahim ghare ekakini hoyya re Bidhi nidaya.
Haila pail mor sonar jauvan maleyar jhare
Mao bape mor hail badi na dil parer ghare re Bidhi nidaya
Bapok na kao sarame mui maok na kao laze,
Dhiki dhiki tusher aghun jaleche dehar majhe re Re bidhi nidaya….
Emon man mor karere bidhi emon man mor kare,
Moner matan chyangra paile dhariya palao dure Re bidhi nidaya.
In this song the woman in the bloom of youth has not been given to marriage in her prime of youth, which is gradually being withered away. Her parents are not in a position to arrange the marriage. The youthful woman is unable to express her mental feelings to anybody out of shame and fear. She feels like running away with a man of her choice marrying him and spending the conjugal life in peace and happiness. She won’t mind even if people speak ill of her and despise her for this act.
The feelings and emotions of the woman for Garial (cartman) and Maishal (buffalo-keepers) is another popular theme of Bhawaiya song. In some of the Bhawaiya songs the woman expresses her love towards the Garials and Maishals. 
This is an example of Bhawaiya song which expresses the feelings and emotion of the woman for the Garial (cartman) :
 

The feelings and emotions of the Garial (cartman) and Maishal (buffalo-keepers) for their wives and ladyloves can also be expressed through Bhawaiya songs.


Reference (text):
  1. Bhawaiya____  Dr. Sukhbilas Barma
 Reference (video song): 
  1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eOhgriPCnMk

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